Why did they say time will heal me?
You will go weeks without thinking of him,
You will stop crying after a few years,
You will not miss him that much anymore,
They lied!
I miss you every passing day and I wish you were here but you are in a better place,
One more day to hold you tight and smell your fragrance of Tomford Black Orchid.
One more day to ask you tough questions about the Bible.
Give me one more day to play you the latest hit songs and teach you the new dance moves.
One more day to introduce the gentleman I really like to you.
One more day so we can go grocery shopping for the house.
Give me one more day so we can take a road trip and explore the new hotels in Ghana.
One more day Daddy…
One more day to hear you laugh so hard and watch your small eyes sink deep into its sockets like mine.
One more day to pose and take photos with you,
One more day so that we can sit together as a family,share a good meal and laugh till our ribs hurt.
Give me one more day to tell you about my plans, hopes and fears as I finish university.
One more day Daddy…
Oh what I will do to have you for just more one day!
With each passing day,I make new memories and it breaks my heart you are not physically present in any of them.
It’s been almost 6 years since you left but on some days,I am convinced you are on a long trip in a far away country and you will return soon.
On many nights,I am certain,you will tuck me in and give me a good night kiss.
I am still hoping to see a phone call from “Daddy.”
Your laughter plays out in my head often,
I promise you,sometimes I hear your voice saying,”Miss Kwor ” or “Esasina,” and every single time,I turn around in hopeful expectation only to see nobody.
I miss you every passing day,
I don’t know if time heals but my healing has come from God,His Word and genuine love from my loved ones and family.
Everyday,I remember you and feel your absence,but it is well.
Happy 75th birthday Daddy.I love you,always have and always will.
If I could have one more day…
Love your family and friends,
Forgive easily and don’t hold grudges against people.
Be at peace with everyone.
For there are many seasons in life,
Enjoy each season and make the most out of it.
Take your walk with God seriously and make prayer your lifestyle.
Love,
Esasina ๐.
Photo Credit : Enoch K.A Osei
This brought tears to my eyes.
Stay strong SinaKodjo ๐
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Awww,dry your eyes Dear! God is my strength.Thank you Sis๐
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I was captivated from beginning to end. I tell your love for him was so deep from your words and he sounds like a great Father and Friend. God is your healer and comforter. May he fill your vacuum and restore you to wholeness. ๐๐
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Thank you for reading Joan!! AMEN.
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One more day….you bring back a lot of memories. Some of yours “look” like mine. I miss him too…and yes time has not done it,God has. Did not know it was possible to miss someone that much and for so long..It is well. Ever so kind and ever so loving…unique. Oh for just one day. God is your strength my dear. Love to you. Forever in my heart Uncle Peter.
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Awww Darley! God has been good through it all.I know right, eternally missing him.Love you too.Amen.xxx
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God’s got you! He’s indeed in a better place. The beautiful part is that one day you’ll get to meet him and spend eternity with him.
Beautiful piece!
Well done!
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Thank you for reading Andy.Amen!!!
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One more day
One day at a time
The Lord our strength
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Amen! Thank you Steve ๐๐
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Miss Kwor
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
You have spoken for most of us who have lost our daddies,(especially those of us called ‘daddy’s girls).
Yes Miss Kwor, time is a healer, when you allow the peace of God to rest in you.
It is well and know that you are not alone.
Be strong.
I love you.
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Awww Auntie Peace, thank you so much.Forever a Daddy’s girl.Thank you for your encouragement.xoxo.I love you too.
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Beautiful.
#Only God heals.
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Only God!! Thank you for reading
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Just one more day, thanks sis indeed our healing comes from God . God bless you for sharing and may we be healed. Amen
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Amen Naa.Thank you for taking.God bless you too.xx
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A hearty message that only the deepest part of our hearts can relate to and comprehend. Thanks for sharing your sentiments they are poignant but aptly and beautifully captured. It’s immense value will be forever treasured and never forgotten.
#God alone can heal.
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Yes Seth! Amen,God Alone.Thank you for reading Dear.
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Wow! Time sure flies, feels like just yesterday. Keep staying strong and always remember that he is still with you, he will forever live on.
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You know!! Time really flies.Amen.Much love Beckhar..xx
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Time only means more memories for you.God really is the one who heals.God bless you girl!May daddy continue to rest well with the Lord.
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Amen! Thank you for reading.xx
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Awwwwww I almost cried reading this. Thanks for sharing Kwor
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Awwww Awurabena! It is well.Thank you for reading ๐
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May his soul rest in peace. As you rightly said, ‘Your healing comes from God’.
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Amen,yes! God Alone!! Thank you for reading
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Reading This Was So Emotional, Wonderful Post
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Awwww…it is well.Thank you.xx
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Touching…Jus Sent me back to Memories with my Dad.
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Awww,the memories always come back.Thank you for reading.
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My heart was in pain reading this, still is…I’m glad you have God to walk beside you through this experience
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Thank you for reading Ben.xxx
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Touching! God bless your heart Kwor. May He continue to be your comfort and grant you His peace. Thanks for the advise too
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Thank you for reading Esther.Amen.xxx
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One more day….
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Yes,we must make you use of today and love with all we have because a time will come when we will ask for just one more day.Thank you for reading Sika.xx
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Very touching. True healing really comes from God over time and not just time itself. Itโs a very nice peace. Keep it up.
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Thank you for reading Andy.xx
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All the time can pass but healing comes from God alone.
I pray that in faith you remain under God’s wings always. There’s no better place!
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Amen Naa, thank you so much.xx
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